Tue 26 Jun 2007
Regarding Apathy…
Posted by Sea Anemone under Blabby Blabby
I have started and erased a post multiple times over the last week. I don’t know why other than to say that over the past few weeks or so, I haven’t felt like I had anything really worth saying. I kind of still don’t really know what to write about.
I could tell y’all about my progress on the Shetland Triangle that I’ve been working on… Surprised? So am I. I don’t think I’ve said anything about it. (If I’m wrong, please don’t worry about correcting me. I’m feeling too blah to care right now.) I’m starting the edging just as soon as I click “publish” and I haven’t even taken pictures of it yet.
I could tell y’all about my frustration with a sweater that I’ve been designing and how the stitch pattern I chose is not looking anything like what I chose despite following the instructions very carefully. (I do have a picture for you for that one.)
I could tell y’all about how I spent a lovely weekend this past weekend with my friends Anne, PlumTexan, Liz and Kelly as well as my impromptu trip to Galveston to see my Mom, Papa, brothers and Mom’s boyfriend.
But when we get right down to it, I’ve just not been feeling like joining the outside world (much less the innernets) lately. Regardless of the fun I’ve had with everyone (and trust me, y’all truly have no idea how much I’ve needed it) the fact of the matter is that I’m depressed. It’s been in “remission” so to speak for quite a while. And that was good. But it hasn’t helped that I’m not on my meds right now (Please, don’t bother to chide me. I know. Ok?) and that I’m feeling kind of stuck in a dead end job and frustrated with my lack of completed edumacation and familial stresses that cannot be helped nearly as much as I wish that I could. It’s really been quite overwhelming and even my job performance has suffered. I hate that I’ve let it work it’s way into the workplace because I’ve tried very hard to keep it out because trust me, I do not need another year end review in which I leave in tears.
And honestly, I could tell y’all a lot more about the depression but really, what is there to say. It happens and there’s not much I feel I can do about it right now besides ride it out and hope that the sun shines again soon. Surprisingly, a lot of the common signs have not been apparent with this round of it. My house is still clean. I am still showered. (Just kidding! Depressed or not, I’ve never not bathed. (double negative anyone?)) I’m eating healthily and losing weight (Which is planned. Thanks Weight Watchers!)
Just in case anyone wanted a photographic representation to better interpret how I’ve been feeling:
I don’t know guys. I just feel all cattywhompus. My best friend is on the other side of the world and after I spend a week with her in August, she goes back for another year. (This is so cliche, but I have to say it) I’m still single. I live by myself. And thusly, I am my own best friend a lot of the time. I’m not feeling all that great about the state of the world today. Want me to stop yet? Yeah. Don’t worry, I don’t feel like expounding any more tonight.
I’ll leave you with pictures of my current trusty companions who don’t care if I spend all evening after I get home from work in ratty sweats and a t-shirt.

(Note that even though you see that sock, it really hasn’t had more than two rows added to it in months. Apparently even just holding it on my lap like I’m going to knit it is enough…)
All in all, I’m sick of feeling like shit folks.




June 26th, 2007 at 10:35 pm
aww man i needed a good vent tonight! why are you not on aim my friend!
i’m sorry yer feeling down. I’ve been in a little funk myself latley, can’t shake it either. But i have no excuses…and i’ve been hallucinating on excedrin and stuff.
i better send out yer package. will be working on that the rest of this week.
looks like someone could use it.
xoxoxox
night owl #2 checkin in
June 26th, 2007 at 10:36 pm
I think I’ve told you this before…but oh WOW, I have been where you are, and I know of the suck and the apathy. Not much to be said that would be both new and helpful…but you know that I love to entertain you, so let me know anytime you’d like to see me make an ass of myself. (I’m really good at that, you know.)
BTW, I still think that stitch pattern looks pretty good.
June 27th, 2007 at 7:54 am
*hugs*
Totally with you there, except the whole medicated bit. I’m sending you hugs and happy thoughts. I hope things pick up for you soon
June 27th, 2007 at 9:06 am
Hang in there! I’m sure things will start looking up for you very soon.
June 27th, 2007 at 9:34 am
I’m sorry you’re feeling down. You know you can give me a call if you need to vent.
As for the stitch pattern, it looks gorgeous but if you want it to look more like the pattern I think you could get more slope on the lines by either a) decreasing the number of stitches in each repeat, or b) increasing the number of rows between where that loop starts and where it gets knitted back in.
*hugs*
June 27th, 2007 at 5:55 pm
I totally know what you mean and for me this week the low point was having to fill out that big brother background check. it just reminded me how much I feel stuck in a rut in this town and job. I think what you are feeling is so normal and more common than you think.
again thanks so much for being a reference!
June 28th, 2007 at 3:34 pm
I can’t say I know what you’re going through - only because I’ve never been depressed, but I have tons of friends AND family (daughter, husband, aunt, father, exhusband’s entire frigging family) who have and all I can tell you is this. Go get the fucking meds! I’m not kidding. If they made a pill for what I got, I’d take it in a second. Unfortunately, annoying and malcontent are not chemical conditions that currently have pharmaceutical solutions. Make the call to your favorite mental health care provider and get the scripts. You are entirely worth it and your life is important and being alone isn’t an excuse or a sentence. WE care about you. Do it.
June 28th, 2007 at 8:59 pm
I’m sure our crappy weather isn’t helping either! Hopefully you’re enjoying SnB right now…I wish I didn’t have to miss the last two weeks (though I have a good excuse!)
June 30th, 2007 at 5:59 pm
Depression sucks. Frankly, the state of the world today is enough to bring anybody down. But, hey! I actually love your stitch pattern! It may not have been what you were trying for, but it’s really lovely. I hope you feel better soon!
July 11th, 2007 at 1:55 pm
I wish I could say I don’t know how you feel, but I do! That said here’s hoping you feel better soon. I too find that I don’t have a lot to say when I’m in that place.
When I get back to the sauna, otherwise known as Houston, I hope to make it to another SNB.